In the beginning of a relationship, everything feels perfect. You're in love, everything seems easy, and it feels like you’ve found your forever person. It’s that blissful phase where nothing could go wrong.
But as time goes on, reality sets in. The challenges come, and you start to see the true nature of your relationship.
Now, I’m more certain than ever.
Why? Because I know I chose my partner wisely. What truly matters is how we've faced life's challenges together, growing stronger with each one.
What to Look for in Your Partner (🧿)
Here are some signs that you might have found your “everything” partner:
They’re always there, no matter what. Whether you’re at your best or feeling down, they’re your constant. Through thick and thin, they’ve got your back.
Love flows both ways. You love them, and they always return that love, no questions asked. It’s not about keeping score—it’s about mutual care and support.
When things fall apart, they’re your rock. Lost your job? Failed a project? It doesn’t matter. They’re the first person there to lift you up, reminding you that you’re not alone.
Feeling lost? They help you find your way. Whether you’re struggling to find direction in life or feeling overwhelmed, they’re there to guide you, even if it’s just offering a shoulder to lean on.
At your lowest, they don’t leave. Even when you feel like you’ve got nothing left, they’re right by your side, offering help, love, and reassurance.
Your emotions are theirs. You cry, they cry. Your wins are their wins, and your struggles are theirs too. They feel with you and for you, no matter the situation.
When you succeed, they celebrate like it’s their own victory. Whether you land a promotion or achieve a personal goal, your success is their success. You’re a team, and they’re always cheering you on.
If you recognize these qualities in your partner—or at least some of them—consider yourself lucky and move forward confidently.
But, if you’re seeing some red flags 🚩, it might be time to take a step back and rethink things.
Your spouse can either lift you up or drag you down, so choose wisely.
The right partner should help you grow, not hold you back or pull you into a negative space.
And, by the way, I love you, T, and I always will. I just wanted to share my thoughts because deep down, I feel like I made the right choice.
Or maybe, you chose me wisely too.
